Thursday, February 08, 2018
Sanitary pads on big screen
Tuesday, February 06, 2018
Decency trumps birth control, safe sex
- First published in The Goan Everyday
References
Tuesday, January 30, 2018
Dignity for senior citizens
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Jihad against love, actually
Sunday, June 18, 2017
Meow Handicrafts updates
Tuesday, May 02, 2017
So it goes
Friday, July 15, 2016
Aavkaro meetho aapje By Dula Bhaya Kag - Translation
હે જી તારા આંગણિયા પુછીને જે કોઈ આવે રે, આવકારો મીઠો…આપજે રે જી…
હે જી તારે કાને સંકટ કોઈ સંભળાવે રે, બને તો થોડું… કાપજે રે જી………
માનવીની પાસે કોઈ….માનવી ન આવે…રે……(૨)
તારા દિવસની પાસે દુ:ખિયાં આવે રે -આવકારો મીઠો…. આપજે રે….જી…. ૧.
કેમ તમે આવ્યા છો ?…એમ નવ કે’જે…રે……(૨)
એને ધીરે એ ધીરે તું બોલવા દેજે રે -આવકારો મીઠો… આપજે રે….જી…. ૨.
વાતું એની સાંભળીને…આડું નવ જોજે….રે……(૨)
એને માથૂં એ હલાવી હોંકારો દેજે રે -આવકારો મીઠો… આપજે રે….જી…. ૩.
‘કાગ’ એને પાણી પાજે…સાથે બેસી ખાજે..રે….(૨)
એને ઝાંપા એ સુધી તું મેલવા જાજે રે -આવકારો મીઠો…
આપજે રે….જી…. ૪.
If someone comes calling at your door, give them a warm welcome,
If someone shares grief with you, if possible try to cut it the way you can.
How sad it is that these days men don't seek help from men!
If in your good times people come to share their sorrows, give them a warm welcome.
Don't ask, "Why have you come to me?"
Let them speak at ease.
Don't look the other way after listening to them,
Nod your head and show them support, give them a warm welcome.
"Kag" offer them water to drink,
And sit them and share your food,
See them off by walking till the gate,
Give them a warm welcome.
Give them a warm welcome.
Translation (C) Gauri Gharpure
Dula Bhaya Kag: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dula_Bhaya_Kag
Jhaverchand Meghani: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jhaverchand_Meghani
Song courtesy: short stories.co.in
Saturday, July 02, 2016
Halim recipe
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Friday Column
Hope you have been good and dropping in once in a while to check for updates. Since June 2015, I started writing a weekly column for The Goan Everyday. Sharing links of some published pieces.
Back to square one
The goodness of a breakup
One love and nothing else
How old is still young?
Farewell to a soldier
Keep in touch!
Sunday, March 29, 2015
Dal Dhokli / Gavar Dhokli - Gujarati food
Tuesday, January 20, 2015
Happy New Year, btw
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Thursday, October 23, 2014
Happily Unmarried - 'Beware of the Wife' Doormat exemplifies sexist psyche
Friday, May 02, 2014
Michhami Dukkadam
| Micchami Dukkadam means asking for forgiveness for hurting in the past, knowingly or unknowingly. It is also an unconditional owning up to the human nature to err, and asking for forgiveness if one may inadvertently end up hurting in the future. This idea of Jainism appeals a lot, it is one of the most noble, sweet little ideals that a religion could inculcate in its followers. Khamemi Savve Jiva |
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Savve
Jiva Khamantu me
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Mitti
me Savva Bhooesu
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Veram
Majjham Na Kenvi
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Michchhami
Dukkadam
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I
forgive all living beings.
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May all
souls forgive me,
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I am on
friendly terms with all;
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I have
no animosity toward any soul.
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May all
my faults be dissolved.
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Meow Handicrafts - Updates
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
A dog's life
Saturday, March 22, 2014
Sunday, October 13, 2013
Tuesday, September 03, 2013
Coexistence
There's a certain amount of restlessness brewing up. An uneasy feeling takes over when you feel something big is going to happen, or that it's about time things change and something big happens, or rather that things don't change at all and instead tread back into time and freeze exactly at those moments you decide.
Calm.
There's also a certain calm. Strange, that it can coexist with restlessness. But there is a realization that whether things change or not, for good or better, the status quo is quite pleasant and that life at this point is such that many may envy.
Every year, there is a certain month and a certain date that creeps up suddenly from behind you and demands a ledger of your life till then. It is on days preceding such dates that you get into a solemn state of mind, curb your jokes and randomness, those smiles, and everything else that you do to hide your old hurt and wounded self from the world. Most of the times these remedies work.
And when they don't, you snuggle up to your father, or your cat, or imagine a love that could be. Even as you imagine, you remeber to thank God that everything is just the way it is, not an inch better, not an inch worse.
It is the present that is the most mysterious and the most giving; a strange mix of calm and restlessness and I wouldn't want it any other way.
GG
















