Thursday, March 04, 2021
I published a poetry book!
Thursday, May 14, 2020
Monday, September 02, 2019
Goodbye Meow
On August 5, after months of painful visits to the vet, Meow succumbed.
He was a weak baby from the go. He also used to be unusually scared of the slightest of sudden sounds and movements. His fear gave him an uncanny aggressiveness and a sense of territory and I would like to believe that I was his punching bag as well as his most prized possession. He was mine. I treasured him in a way I knew I could never own someone; selfishly, unconditionally, fearlessly.
Two days before he passed, I got a feeling that the end was near and I escaped the house riding on a vague excuse. I was exhausted and believed that I needed distraction to prepare myself for the inevitable vacuum that would suck me in soon enough.
The day Meow died, it rained with an ardour that even this town hadn't witnessed before. Moments before he left, he kept looking at me, his piercing gaze questioning me and accusing me and seeking assurance from me all at once. Meow had been my saviour in more ways than I can define or will to share and in his last moments, I wondered if he wondered if I was at all equipped to carry on without him.
This has been a month of mourning. Of distracting myself with fleeting people and emotions. For all the times he fell sick and threw tantrums at the vet's making treatment all the more difficult and I lay awake imagining my loneliness without him around, I must say I am doing good.
Goodbye, Meow. Till we meet again!
Saturday, June 09, 2018
Letters not sent
The other day, I came across a bunch of sealed envelopes. There were stamps too! I recognized my writing even though it has changed since, like an old friend who has adopted new fashion trends, and thought about the time when I curled the letters and crossed my Ts differently. What else has changed, other than my handwriting?
I am still in touch with all the friends to whom I promised cards but did not make it to the post box, so that's a good thing for starters. As I pushed those cards away, I realized that I have not written a letter to anyone from around the same period that I did not post those letters. I used to love writing letters and I genuinely wonder what made me stop.
Friday, June 08, 2018
Revival and Measured Thoughts
Thursday, February 08, 2018
Sanitary pads on big screen
Tuesday, February 06, 2018
Decency trumps birth control, safe sex
- First published in The Goan Everyday
References
Tuesday, January 30, 2018
Dignity for senior citizens
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Jihad against love, actually
Sunday, June 18, 2017
Meow Handicrafts updates
Tuesday, May 02, 2017
So it goes
Friday, July 15, 2016
Aavkaro meetho aapje By Dula Bhaya Kag - Translation
હે જી તારા આંગણિયા પુછીને જે કોઈ આવે રે, આવકારો મીઠો…આપજે રે જી…
હે જી તારે કાને સંકટ કોઈ સંભળાવે રે, બને તો થોડું… કાપજે રે જી………
માનવીની પાસે કોઈ….માનવી ન આવે…રે……(૨)
તારા દિવસની પાસે દુ:ખિયાં આવે રે -આવકારો મીઠો…. આપજે રે….જી…. ૧.
કેમ તમે આવ્યા છો ?…એમ નવ કે’જે…રે……(૨)
એને ધીરે એ ધીરે તું બોલવા દેજે રે -આવકારો મીઠો… આપજે રે….જી…. ૨.
વાતું એની સાંભળીને…આડું નવ જોજે….રે……(૨)
એને માથૂં એ હલાવી હોંકારો દેજે રે -આવકારો મીઠો… આપજે રે….જી…. ૩.
‘કાગ’ એને પાણી પાજે…સાથે બેસી ખાજે..રે….(૨)
એને ઝાંપા એ સુધી તું મેલવા જાજે રે -આવકારો મીઠો…
આપજે રે….જી…. ૪.
If someone comes calling at your door, give them a warm welcome,
If someone shares grief with you, if possible try to cut it the way you can.
How sad it is that these days men don't seek help from men!
If in your good times people come to share their sorrows, give them a warm welcome.
Don't ask, "Why have you come to me?"
Let them speak at ease.
Don't look the other way after listening to them,
Nod your head and show them support, give them a warm welcome.
"Kag" offer them water to drink,
And sit them and share your food,
See them off by walking till the gate,
Give them a warm welcome.
Give them a warm welcome.
Translation (C) Gauri Gharpure
Dula Bhaya Kag: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dula_Bhaya_Kag
Jhaverchand Meghani: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jhaverchand_Meghani
Song courtesy: short stories.co.in
Saturday, July 02, 2016
Halim recipe
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Friday Column
Hope you have been good and dropping in once in a while to check for updates. Since June 2015, I started writing a weekly column for The Goan Everyday. Sharing links of some published pieces.
Back to square one
The goodness of a breakup
One love and nothing else
How old is still young?
Farewell to a soldier
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